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<\/div>\r\nReal friends are friends ALWAYS, even when a misunderstanding happens through electronic media like SMS, chat or email. It amazes me how carelessly we interpret the intentions, inflections and tone of voice behind the words you and I receive in a text message or email. If you misread a friend's message, remember that the friendship matters more than one confusing note.\r\n\r\nFor example, if you are feeling angry, it is so easy to filter another person\u2019s words as anger towards you. When in reality the person may have just been angry at a situation, and as a friend, is venting that with you, not at you. Similarly, if we feel sexually insecure or have had bad experiences with men or women, if we receive communication from someone who does not have these issues, we may interpret their words as sexually motivated or flirtatious, when in fact they are just trying to be a loving friend.\r\n\r\nSo my friends, please be careful how you write to your friends. If you are joking, make sure you end your note with an LOL (Laugh out Loud) so your tone is clear. If you are upset, it is best not to write anything until you cool down. If you must write, make sure the person you share your anger with knows it is NOT directed at them. Better yet, pick up the phone and talk to them. SMS, chat and email WILL NEVER replace the power of sound communication. Don\u2019t allow these imperfect mediums to destroy years of friendship, because that would be silly.\r\n

What Not to Send by Text Message to Friends or Partners<\/h3>\r\nSMS in particular is very informal, because it is quick and to the point. For that reason, you should never use SMS for formal invitations or to dump your girlfriend or boyfriend. The casualness of a text message diminishes the credibility and meaning of what you are trying to say. Yet this happens way too often. It has happened to me, and I am sure it has happened to you. It is always better to talk to the person face to face, or at least over the phone. Remember that sound carries so much more information and feeling than text.\r\n
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Why Face-to-Face Conversations Protect Your Friendships<\/h3>\r\nAlthough much can be said about the power of sound to carry emotion, nothing compares to in-person, face-to-face communication. This is where you get the full story, because there is no hiding your intentions. You are like an open book. If you really respect and love your friend as you said you did, then a face-to-face meeting is always the best choice.\r\n\r\nSo keep in mind the limitations of electronic media. Don't take it too seriously or filter messages through your own emotional issues if you are on the receiving end. And more importantly, if you have something of value to say to a friend, talk to them<\/b>. You'll avoid so much stress, pain and unnecessary waste of time.\r\n